Moving On..

Every relationship comes to an end. We all know that. Some say there is a thing such as "FOREVER" but I say, there is no such thing like it. After a relationship has ended, we all go through a process called MOVING ON. 

Moving on may be easy for some people, but it is usually hard for most people. Especially to those who had a really deep relationship with their "ex."  Trust me, I have been through and have been going through it for the past five months. It doesn't matter who it is, but this article is about you to understand what is moving on and what I think moving on is all about.

I've been hearing all these people telling me, "Nako, wag ka na dyan, Magmove-on ka na. Di sha worth it" -- These words are so easy to say, but so hard to do. I've been trying to move on, I've been telling myself, "ANG DAMING IBA DIYAN.." Which is true. I've been surrounded by a lot of people after our break up, but I still find myself going back to that person.

Yung feeling na, Isang text or tawag lang niya, andyan ka na agad.. Sobrang hindi ka makatiis. TRUE?  Yes.

There were Good and Bad memories that were made and apparently, You can't forget all of these in an istant. Di naman yan instant noodles na naluluto agad agad eh, in other words, Ang pagmove on, di naman yan instantly nagagawa, it goes through a step by step procedure.

I can't exactly tell you how to move on  kasi kahit ako, I haven't fully moved on eh. But here's  how:

1. STOP ALL FORMS OF COMMUNICATION. 

Hindi naman sa pagiging bitter, pero it's one way para makalimot. Don't text or call him/her, I-delete mo number niya sa contacts mo, or much better, Mag-iba ka ng number. Hide mo muna posts niya sa FB, Unfollow mo sa twitter.. Isang click lang naman yan eh.

2. STOP REMINISCING. It's so hard to stop reminiscing. Bakit? Kasi you're gonna find yourself some time of the day, doing something you used to do with your ex. Pag may narinig ka lang na kanta niyo dati, feeling mo, SIGN yon na wag ka magmove on.. Tas pag nagaayos  ka ng stuff mo, makita mo lang love letter niya tsaka picture niyo, Iiyak ka na agad. PSHH. Sa una lang yan. Gusto mo  ba yon? Yung siya, okay  na okay  na, samantalang ikaw, nandyan sa sulok,  nagmumukmok at umaaasa? Wag ganon mhen. Itigil mo na yan.

3. SIMPLY FORGET. Kalimutan mo na. Yun na yon eh wag nang ibalik pa.

If you miss him/her, It's normal. Minahal mo eh, minahal ka din. Kaso kapag Ikaw nalang ang nagmamahal, it's time to stop na. Eventually, You're gonna get tired of how you feel everyday, still waiting. Then you're gonna tell yourself, "FINALLY, I'VE MOVED ON" :)