Based on my experience, me and my recent ex have been fighting a lot everyday, and we've been making up at the end of every fight we have because we couldn't resist each other. This has been our routine. We have been fighting over me getting jealous at somebody, not going out with "him" and shit because I was not allowed to go out quite often. "He" tells me that "he" understands my parents not allowing me to go somewhere but it turns out that he doesn't. I can say that I am very "matampuhin." The typical stuff like when he doesn't reply, when he doesn't say I love you back, etc.. you know what I mean.
So here's the thing, as I said a while ago, many couples fight. So what happened? Well, he broke up with me. He said he was tired... He was tired of everything.. all of the fighting, blah blah. I admitted that at times, I wasn't swallowing my pride at all, but there was a reason why I was like that. It's because I didn't want him to do the same thing over and over again. In other words, I don't want him to get used to me forgiving him every time he does something that I don't like. I felt like he was taking advantage.. he knows very well that I can't resist him. I am very well aware that I have not done everything for him. But I really loved him.. Big time.
Nothing's wrong with holding up your head and keeping your pride, but If you still want to keep that relationship going strong, well you have to step down a little bit and be the one to apologize or be the one to fix things first between you and your partner. Because you're never gonna know when your partner will get tired and just break up with you. You'll be surprised. But if you are tired, and unhappy, then STOP. Because you don't have to force yourself to a person whom you have fallen out of love to.. If you do that, You'll be unhappy and you're going to hurt that person's feelings once he/she knew that you only wanted some company, and that you wanted to be in a relationship, but you don't love him/her.
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